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Ain't love a strange thing?

I recently had a discussion about love. We agreed that love is a state - a state of mind perhaps. How do we determine whether we love or are in love?  Love changes according to our emotional psyche. However, I believe that there are levels to that state and we move around this in a circular motion with external factors determining which level we end up in at any given time.  There is free movement between levels, so we can move forwards or backwards.  As for the alteration of the state, the factor that made it what it is can never be forgotten and therefore will always heavily influence whether or not one believes that they have eliminated the state of love - it is important here to note that the word believes is used as if for example, you are in a relationship and think you are in love or love someone, the state can be altered by things such as having control, neglect etc., then we as humans quickly conclude that they no longer love or are in love because of being emotionally traumat